Solace

Life isn't always full of happy days and positivity. Sometimes you may need to offset sad moments and negativity by finding solace. Some may call it an escape or finding peace, but solace is the idea or feeling of comfort during hard times. Solace is a way to keep your emotions and mental state in check while your journey of life takes an unexpected turn. An example would be if you get a bad grade on a test and you watch your favorite television show to take your mind off of the failure you endured. By doing this, it is possible to reset your mood and thoughts so that you can either move on or attempt to try again with your shortcomings. Finding solace isn't just limited to watching t.v. Solace can range from artistic expressions, conversing with friends, traveling, trying new foods, reading inspirational books, etc. The trick is to find out what keeps you "sane" during chaotic moments so you can effectively function. What may work for someone you know may not necessarily work for you. Be in mind that the concept is to avoid being overwhelmed by the lows of life, not to ignore them. If what you find solace in is affecting your progression or ability to alleviate negative situations then you may need to find another way to do so. Finding peace in various activities and moments can be difficult, but if you are true to yourself and do whats best for you, it can make things a little more easier to handle.

"Live life, responsibly"

-Kelly McGhee

Temptation

Many people along with myself have fallen victim to temptation. The idea of finding pleasure in something at first but later regreting that it even took place to begin with. Temptations may vary from person to person so managing them can be tricky. Where one may succumb to a tempting treat that isnt necessiarily healthy after a meal, another may not be able to resist a risky oportunity that could potentially bring them closer to their dreams. It would be wise to be honest with your weaknesses when dealing with temptations because this is what it thrives off of. The lack of control to resist instant satisfaction of certain aspects of life could be the "kryptonite" of a person who is impatient and/or overly optimistic for a positive outcome. You really have to look at tempting moments for what they are and what they could do to you if you wish to indulge in them. The saying "good things come to people who wait" is perfect for this topic. Just because a moment may present itself as something amazing upfront is enough for you to miss a great downfall waiting for you around the corner. Theres nothing wrong with wanting to feel good, but when the negatives outweigh the positives you probably should look for pleasure elseware (it will more than likely benefit you down the road). All in all, if your in a predicament where you cant decide whether to give in to temptation or not. Just ask yourself one question. "Am I going to regret this later"?

"Live life, responsibly"

-Kelly McGhee