Forgiveness

           As humans, we aren't all perfect. When our actions (whether good or bad) bring upon a negative reaction, we tend to look for forgiveness. This term refers to the overlooking of mistakes or wrongdoings. People forgive the actions of others to retain relationships, give second chances, or because the situation had little to no effect on them to begin with. When truly forgiving someone you must forget the persons actions completely. This can be hard for some people because the pain endured over the situation isn't easy to forget. Throughout life you will be hurt but what you must remember is that if you're strong, you will heal over time. Refusal to get over being hurt or done wrong by someone will eventually make you bitter. Forgiveness is a way to, in a sense, start with a clean slate while continuing your relationship with someone. Looking past bad vibes and experiences with someone would only be wise if you truly trust that this person. Forgiving someone that continues to hurt or steer you wrong wouldn't be something that most would recommend. There is something called being "too optimistic" when it comes to hoping for the best. When it comes to forgiveness you really have to be honest not with just yourself but the reality of how things will play out. If you feel that its worth doing, then go for it. If not, you don't have to beat yourself up about cutting ties with someone. Forgiveness should only be for the people that you honestly believe should remain in your life or somehow found themselves down the wrong path and just need a second chance.

"Live life, responsibly"

-Kelly McGhee